100 days to the first anniversary…

by | Sep 21, 2014 | Blog

In exactly 100 days it will be one year since my father’s death. It is said that the first year and all first events such as my birthday, Dad’s birthday, father’s day, first Diwali, first death anniversary et cetera are horrendous. It is is true. I...

Growing up!

by | Sep 15, 2014 | Blog

Since my dear Dad left his physical presence I have had to deal with a whole host of issues. Practical, legal and of course emotional. To say I miss my Pa is really an understatement. How my life has changed only I know. I miss discussing and consulting things with...

why this blog….

by | Sep 7, 2014 | Blog

A universal fact of life is love and equally universal is death. Each one of us if we live long enough will experience the death of a loved one. I am a reasonably articulate and intelligent human being yet I have never experienced or indeed understood the emotional,...

My never ending grief journey

by | Sep 5, 2014 | Blog, Grief, Poem

The tears in my eyes I can wipe away The ache in my heart will always stay Time slips by and time goes on But in my head you’ve never gone What you meant to me only you and I know The scale of my loss only you and I know The day you died a part of me died too...