A Blooming Tribute: Celebrating My Father’s Legacy

Apr 17, 2025 | Blog, Grief


As I stand in my front drive, gazing at the magnificent cherry blossom tree in full bloom, I’m reminded of the journey I’ve been on since planting it four years ago on my dad’s death anniversary. This tree, once a tiny sapling, has grown into a symbol of my personal growth and the enduring love I share with my father.

This time of year is poignant, not just because of the tree’s beauty, but because it marks my dad’s birthday on April 21st. I feel a profound sense of happiness knowing he’s free and watching over me, proud of the person I’ve become.

Oscar, my German Shepherd, stands proudly in front of the tree, a connection to my dad who also had a German Shepherd when I was a toddler. It’s as if the universe conspired to bring Oscar into my life, continuing the bond I share with my father.

On what would have been my dad’s 107th birthday, the second edition of my book, “My Dad and Me: A Journey of Love, Loss, and Life,” is released. It’s a testament to the legacy he left behind, living on through my words and the stories I share. My father’s name, proudly printed as my middle name, ensures his spirit is woven into every page.

This cherry blossom tree is more than just a tree; it’s a reflection of us and the love that transcends time. As it blooms, so do I, carrying forward the lessons and love my father instilled in me.

Happy Birthday, Dad. Your legacy lives on. I love you Dado.

©DMP. 17th April, 2025. 

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